How to They/Them - A Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns and the World of Gender Fluidity Book

How to They/Them - A Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns and the World of Gender Fluidity Book

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Ever wonder what nonbinary or gender nonconforming really mean? And how the heck do you use they/them pronouns for just one person? Isn't it supposed to be plural?

This charming and disarming guide unpacks all these questions and more with a fun, visual approach. From a real-deal they/them-using genderqueer writer, this book makes it humorous and easy to learn so that everyone can get it. No soap boxes or divisive comment section wars here

Sometimes funny, sometimes serious, always human, this 101 primer is about more than just bathrooms and pronouns. It's about gender expression and the freedom to choose how to identify. While they might only be for some, that freedom is for everyone!

"This is totally cool. It's an accessibly rigorous introduction to the singular they pronoun and likewise this, I think, workbook paws around connecting they-ness to the bordering and genuinely simultaneous realm of sexuality in its multiplicity of ways of feeling not 'like' but genuinely truly being oneself. Also the drawings are good, it just all feels direct (phew)--which is what we need--and it would be a boon to hand this book to so many people, so please do that. Plus it's a useful read to remind yourself that you aren't alone and do exist. I'm glad to have read it."
Eileen Myles, poet and author of Chelsea Girls

"Straightforward, practical, relevant navigation through the radiant world of gender fluidity."
Kirkus Reviews

"How to They/Them is an easy visual learning guide to accompany us on the journey to accepting others as they truly are. The more tools the better!"
Jinkx Monsoon, winner of RuPaul's Drag Race

"Utterly cute and tremendously useful. A remarkably valuable, versatile, and accessible source of education on gender identity."
Alok Vaid-Menon, author of Beyond the Gender Binary

"How to They/Them is a friendly, gentle, entertaining introduction to gender, taking they/them pronouns as a starting point but covering so much more. With sweet illustrations, helpful timelines, and generous personal examples, Stuart Getty takes the reader by the hand and tells them everything they need to know about how to navigate the confusing, ever-shifting landscape of sex and gender. This book will give nonbinary readers a sense of being profoundly seen and everyone else the confidence to make the world that little bit safer for their nonbinary friends, family, and colleagues. Thank you, Stuart."
Meg-John Barker, author of Gender: A Graphic Guide and How to Understand Your Gender

    Author Stuart Getty
    Format Hardback
    Pages 140
    ISBN 9781632173133


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