I'm Afraid of Men Book
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RELEASE DATE - 30 AUGUST 2018
Winner of the 2018 Alcuin Society Awards for Excellence in Book Design - Prose Non-Fiction
Toxic masculinity takes many insidious forms, from misogyny and sexual harassment to homophobia, transphobia, and bullying.
Vivek Shraya has first-hand experience with nearly all of them.
As a transwomen she grew up experiencing aggression for displaying femininity, and is haunted by the violence of men.
I'm Afraid of Men is a culmination of the years Vivek spent observing men and creating her own version of manhood. Through deeply personal reflection, she offers a rare and multifaceted perspective on gender and a hopeful reimagining of masculinity at a time when it's needed more than ever.
"Vivek Shraya transforms her long-festering fears of men into cultural rocket fuel ... Shraya's dispatches from the frontlines of life as a queer, trans woman of color are frequently illuminating, painfully honest, and, in spite of everything, hopeful."
Vanity Fair
"Emotional and painful but also layered with humour, I'm Afraid of Men will widen your lens on gender and challenge you to do better. This challenge is a necessary one--one we must all take up. It is a gift to dive into Vivek's heart and mind."
Rupi Kaur, bestselling author of The Sun and Her Flowers and Milk and Honey
"Brilliant, funny, and deeply vulnerable, Shraya's I'm Afraid of Men is both a moving memoir and a rallying cry for a better future. Her insights on the myriad ways the binary oppresses and denigrates are invaluable and resonant. I adore this book."
Jill Soloway
"In I'm Afraid of Men, Vivek Shraya owns and exposes her own history with masculinity and offers a way out of this harmful and old-fashioned binary we call gender. My head nodded along quietly in agreement any time I wasn't wiping away rising tides of tears. Vivek Shraya is a superior voice, and this book is essential reading for everyone."
Tegan Quin of Tegan and Sara
"Vivek Shraya's writing is always empathetic but challenging, kind but sharp, and I'm Afraid of Men forces you to confront what you think you know about masculinity, privilege, and fear. Reading Shraya's writing will make you a better person, through and through."
Scaachi Koul, author of One Day We'll All Be Dead and None of This Will Matter
| Author | Vivek Shraya |
| Format | Paperback |
| Pages | 112 |
| ISBN | 9780735235939 |
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